wedding plans

dear goddess this is not easy. i am trying to plan a yule wedding that is in no way religious. yeah, this coming from the witch. i'm trying to find out a way to convert those plain cheap ornaments from target and wal-mart into place card holders/favors. i thought it would be fun to have individually decorated ornaments for everyone to take home. similar pre-made card holders are like $12 for 4! ridiculous, right? sometimes i forget how many pagans there are when i look for yule wedding ideas. it seems they always ask me "did you mean christmas weddings?" no i did not and fuck you for assuming i must have been thinking of another religion's holiday! well, sort of another religion's holiday...not really, but sort of. where are all the pagans? it seems i go to wiccan and pagan web sites and find that they are not being updated and that nobody has done anything since 2004. 2004 seems to be the average year. did everyone just give up on the web? or am i looking in the wrong places? if i can figure out these programs i'll be making my own, but will i be alone? i hope not. i am unsure though.